Ivan Tremor Biography

From his story: “From time to time, she has to communicate with a colleague from time to time, she works in another department. A woman is attractive. Before meeting with her and during her heart begins to pound a lot, sweat performs, I feel the breath, I feel trembling in her arms, in her legs. When talking with her, I feel embarrassment, the words are stuck in my throat, I look very stupid in such moments.

I want to talk with her about a meeting or at least ask me about something The neutral that would help to distract from work and transfer the conversation to the channel of personal interests, but for some reason I put on a mask of indifference, we are sparingly replace by a few phrases and I hasten to leave before I had a relationship with women, but I felt like that only once that I started my first relations with a high school student: I studied in the 9th grade It is known that the higher the subjective significance of something or someone, the higher the level of anxiety.

I suggested that earlier Ivan experienced unpleasant emotions in similar circumstances, and now, again experiencing this trigger, it turns out to be captured by his affect. As it turned out in the process of counseling, his relationship with that high school student was interrupted by her sudden death. However, the process of core was never completed. Ivan was too idealized by his first lover, compared his other women with her.

There was an attitude in it that he would never meet a girl again, so beautiful that would love him selflessly how she loved him. With women, he chose a strategy for counter -dependent behavior, depreciating them and exposing the stiff boundaries to become attached out of fear. And then Ivan meets at work a colleague who reminded him of his old love. He had already forgotten when such passions raged in his blood.

Along with this, painful memories rose from the depths - the first sex with a high school student and her bloodied body on the asphalt that evening, Ivan found out that his Masha spent time in the company of the guys, smoked a lot of grass and fell out of the window of the 9th floor. It is still not known for sure whether it was suicide, murder or an accident. Using the exposition method, Ivan and I worked out his injury until emotions became more or less stable.

After 12 sessions, he was finally able to release this situation. Following this, neurotic anxiety was gone when communicating with a colleague, whom Ivan soon called for a date. I hope that now everything will be fine with him. Published on the site: October 10, views.